There are a lot of books written about how to become a successful person, and there is a lot of controversy. However, everything is not so difficult, and even quite simple. Too easy. You just need to follow a few rules developed by successful people.
Do what you love
The path to success will be as easy as you do things with pleasure.
Think: Do you remember your favorite joke or episode from life for a long time? How hard is it for you to watch your favorite movie or read an interesting book? It is unlikely that both can be called hard work. However, the study of reports on the work often causes internal irritation, the search for information necessary for the case in the computer is an internal protest.
Judging by the physical action alone: both types of occupations look about the same. However, in one case - pleasure and ease, and in the other - emotional stress.
And now let's imagine: how much can be achieved if everyday work was perceived as well as favorite fishing. How quickly and easily a person would succeed in such a field.
Hence, an uncomplicated conclusion - before becoming a successful person, you should decide on your favorite business and achieve success in this particular area.
Become a true fan of discipline
Legendary boxer Muhammad Ali insisted that he hates every minute of his daily workouts, who had become a life routine. But at the same time, Ali said: "I need to suffer now to be a champion in life."
After the lapse of time, even an ideal job, which has become your passion, can transform into an ordinary business, which does not bring any joy and casts an elementary boredom. Every person who has achieved success sees his global goal and goes through any difficulties that sometimes even cause some suffering.
Remember: the road to success is far from rose petals. And, to achieve your goal, you should act. Contrary to their possible laziness and reluctance.
Make a habit
Man is mighty through his habits. A successful person - even more so. Habit is nothing but the ability to repeat the same action, practicing the skill to automatism. Nothing supernatural - the usual dialectic. The law of the transition of quantity to quality in action.
The famous hero of the film “Sacrifice” says: if every day at the same time you come with a bucket and water even the most dried tree, then in the end the tree will give roots. This is let to success, based on the ability of a person to repeat approximately the same actions every day to achieve their goals.
Ignore skeptics
The path to success eliminates thoughts of failure. Any athlete who has become a champion, in the first place, thinks about how to win, and not about how not to lose. Any serious artist brush or words, sitting down at work, knows that he begins, at least, a masterpiece. Any effective manager, an enterprise manager, starting a workshop, repeats to his subordinates something like the following: “Don't tell me why it won't work, tell me what needs to be done to make it work.”
The logic of success is simple. To achieve it - cultivate your strengths, and do not work on the disadvantages. Do not listen and ignore skeptics who will tell you that your business will not be successful. To think about failure means to slow down the realization of one's intentions, and therefore to slow down one’s success.
Plan your day
Life consists of many unforeseen circumstances and a volatile information field. Every day we experience a variety of emotions.If we follow each of them and react absolutely to everything, then the sum of all our reactions simply does not suffice for all the time allotted to us in this world.
Our life is simply lost in the bustle, exchanged for nonsense, if you do not concentrate on something important, and perhaps only. Therefore, mark everything in your life that seems to be of secondary importance and plan the day only around the main thing. This will create an information flow and an emotional background for the direction of movement that will help achieve the desired.
As a swimmer on the river, in this case you will not change direction depending on the current, the position of the sun or the sight before your eyes, but clearly, stroke by stroke, follow the point chosen on the opposite bank, without wasting your strength.
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Value relationship
The one who created this world - made sure that we were not alone in it. Any business on the shoulder only if we have like-minded people with whom we can share our views. Together to know defeat and victory.
If you go by car on a long journey, you will never pour out gasoline in the middle of the road. If you go to arid areas, you will never pour fresh water on the ground. The same with relationships. They are our fuel on the road and our water in the desert. By summing up our efforts with the efforts of others, we can achieve the result we need.
Therefore, to value relationships is a sure way to success. The best way to do this is to properly distribute the roles in the team, so that everyone feels interested in the result and considers your success, including his own.
Do not stop
There is no limit to perfection. Not once, not twice, did the ancient thinkers repeat. And they thought correctly, because only that which is in constant motion is alive. The stop caused by our narcissism is always the beginning of the end. For one simple reason. The world that was a second ago - a second later is another. And, if a person does not see this second, he may not see the minutes, the year, and then the whole decade, which will not let him know how to become a successful person.
Do not stop. Success is always a concept not final, but current. It is difficult to catch the victory state for a long time. To fix it is impossible. Only, if you consider the achievement of some result not the final point, but the initial stage and continue to develop yourself and acquire new knowledge - there is a hope that success will periodically come to you again.
And finally: throughout their lives, billions of people with true talent and intelligence did not succeed. And all because they did not have one main quality - the courage to get out of their comfort zone and risk their lives for the sake of higher affairs.
Remember: getting a reward without risk is almost impossible. Find a dream, define your goal and risk to achieve it. Good luck!
